How to Give the Best Sensual Massage

Sensual massage is a great way to build closeness with your partner. Giving a sensual massage to someone you love is not difficult, it is a natural instinct. You need however, to follow some rules if you want your sensual massage to be a success.
There are two distinct types of erotic massage classifying by the desired effect: Therapeutic erotic massage which has as objective the treatment of a sexual dysfunction; Recreational erotic massage which’s objective is to create intimacy between two persons. First of all you need to know the basis of the massage, not every move you make up would have the desired effect on your loved one. Buy a massage book take some lessons, watch an experienced massage therapist, or read my online massage book. In fact Erotic massage is not too much different from a regular massage. The main differences are more psychological than anything else. Almost all massage sessions in fact contain a strong erotic component.
Massage is the magic wand of intimacy. It is a magic wand if you follow a few simple rules: Technique: All strokes have to be slower than usual in order to set the right mood. All strokes have to be lighter than usual in order to trigger the correct feel. You can start with more pressure and soften up as you progress.
Timing: Do not ever start with erogenous zones, unless you’ve been asked too, this puts off most of the partners. What you think is an erogenous zone might be a huge putt off for your partner. Thus, try to avoid massaging erogenous zones in the first part of the massage. Massaging the erogenous zones should happen after the second half. You and your partner should count between 40 and 60 minutes for a sensual massage.
Psychological factors: If someone has asked you to give them an erotic massage is for a reason. It is the best way to tell you that he or she likes you. Massage facilitates the release of endorphins in our body; the endorphins are responsible for relaxing and creating the right mood. Let the massage do its job. We transmit sexual desire not only by words and gestures; there are chemical reactions and hormones that are being released during the foreplay. These are strong signals and contain more information than we can communicate through gestures and words. Let your signals be heard before you make bold moves. During a sensual massage there are body language signs which should tell you what should be your next move. Look at these signs and wait for them. Respect your partner’s approach about sex and do not pass barriers that you know he/she wouldn’t like to pass.